Archive | May, 2007

Hasty Decisions

28 May

“Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” ~ Colossians 3:12-14 (ESV)

I know I am a little late posting today. The reason is that I had a totally different post planned. I had it halfway written—it was about trusting God. Maybe I will publish it on a later date; only God knows.

Yesterday I read the above passage—I was convicted that I sometimes harbor things in my heart that are not very Christ-like. Let me explain…

I had sent an email to a dear friend of mine telling her that I was hurt by some actions she really didn’t had any control over. I made a hasty decision without checking the facts first.

The next day, I read the above passages. All I could think was “ouch”. We are God’s chosen ones; we are ought to close ourselves with kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Talk about God uncovering my heart…

Immediately I have sent an email to my friend apologizing for my hasty decision and I pray that she can forgive me.

How often have you made a hasty decision when you felt hurt or wronged? Maybe I am the only one how reacts first and thinks later…Next time I feel hurt or wronged, I will pray before I react…

Lord of Heaven and Earth. We are Your chosen ones, holy and beloved. Help us to clothes ourselves with compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience at all times. Stop us in our tracks before we make hasty decisions. In the precious name of Jesus ~ Amen.

As you are celebrating Memorial Day today, please remember the fallen and currently serving soldiers in your prayers…

The Nature of Our Depravity

27 May

I listened to a John Piper message from the ReFocus Conference (download conference messages here.)

The thrust of the message, “The Nature of Our Depravity” was not that we are all as bad as we can possibly be – it is obvious that most people, saved or not, are not as evil as evil can get.

The depth of our depravity is that it seeps into every aspect of our lives – there is no part of who we are as human being that is not touched by this depravity.

Piper tells us that the nature of this depravity is not necessarily an impulse to “do evil” at every chance that we have. No.

The nature of our depravity is that, without the influence of Christ in our lives, we tend to prefer things other than God. Even good things – the gifts of God – can be touched by this depravity if we prefer them, not God.

The very first question on the Westminster Shorter Catechism is

What is the chief end of man?

Answer: Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him for ever. (Scripture references are at the end of this post)

The question for us is – how does this happen? God has given us life – do we enjoy our life, or do we look at our life and see how it allows us to enjoy God?

This leads to much soul-searching – it’s easy for a Christian to prefer God over the evil things in this world. It’s not so easy to look at the very, very good things that God has given us and prefer – truly prefer God over these things. Our children, our marriages, our jobs, even our church.

When my relationship with God is put on a back burner because my place in the choir, in Sunday School class, in whatever board I’m on – that’s the nature of my depravity – that even the good things that I do are touched by a preference for the things of this earth.

Realizing the depth of this depravity – how does this work? If even the good things are touched by this depth of being a fallen human being – what next?

Grace. We never, as long as we walk on this earth, stop needing grace!

It is this grace – so amazing, so comforting, so all-encompassing – that saves us. I examine myself – my self. Is “self” getting in the way of my relationship with God? Obviously, the answer is yes – it’s the nature of fallen humanity? But grace steps in.

In Mark 9:24, the man who came to Jesus believed, and yet there was this fallen humanity in the way.

“Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!

This is grace; it gives us faith, it supports and grows that faith!

Grace covers us when our faith and our preference for God falters.  This is my hope and peace.

God created the heavens and the earth; humans sinned, bringing sin into our lives.  Christ came and died to cover the sins of those who believe.

My focus must be on God – my preference must be for God.  Not the things of God, but God.  Enjoy His gifts – allow them to point to Him and enjoy Him forever.

My prayer is that we see all good gifts as coming from God – allowing us to enjoy Him.

[a]. Ps. 86:9; Isa. 60:21; Rom. 11:36; I Cor. 6:20; 10:31; Rev. 4:11
[b]. Ps. 16:5-11; 144:15; Isa. 12:2; Luke 2:10; Phil. 4:4; Rev. 21:3-4

What is your trigger?

26 May

This week I fell for one of satan’s tools. Something happened that left me spinning, probably more then it should have. I placed someone who was in biblical authority on a pedestal, and that person fell. Only Christ should be placed on that pedestal and only Christ is faithful in all things. This week the Lord really showed me how I got to that point, because it is sneaky and it reminded me how satan works. Someone else’s sin can lead to sin in your own life, but it manifests in a different way.

Let me review how satan works:

1. He knows his tools. And his biggest tool is a voice in your head, and a sympatic ear. We are all prone to wander. For me personally, I was already going through some spiritual warfare before this week, I felt battle weary. I was beginning to regroup and refresh, feeling that I was fighting the good fight. I felt the sympatic ear of how my weariness was understood, and I should relax a bit.

2. Satan knows our wiring and our tendencies. It was made evident to me that I lost sight of spiritual leaders human tendencies. We are all human, but in my tunnel vision I lost sight of that. So when a leader who I was close to fell, it rocked my world. How could he sin? This person was Godly, he could do no wrong. Here was a tendency/belief Satan was aware of I had, even if I was not aware of it myself. I do now.

Satan’s goal is to create an environment where he can tempt your mind. He wants to fill your head with thoughts that will stir your affections in hopes you will enact the free will given to you, to participate in activities or make it easy to lead you away from Christ.

When you enact in that will, you fall into sin.

James 1:14 states: But each one is tempted when he is carried away (mind) and enticed by his own lust.

Many times Satan wants you to believe this is as good as it gets, you begin to feel defeated, and you wonder what all the fight is for if you will only fail. So he will move you to a place where you should not be or thinking things you should not think.

My temptation this week was to walk away from any ministry I was involved in, no more devotionals, no more Internet Café, no more… for all it leads to is pain and disappointment. If the person I looked up to could fall into sin so greatly, then what hope is there for me to make a difference in the Kingdom of God?

Do you hear the lies that were whispered to this battle weary girl? Satan knew I was already weary; I was already feeling a bit attacked (notice he created the environment), and then suddenly my mentor/spiritual advisor fell and hurt everyone around (and provided me a simple reason to just walk away, to say it is not worth it).

But God carried me, and used this pain to make me aware that I was placing human men (and by men I mean men and women) on a pedestal, that is not fair to them and it can lead me down the wrong path. Only Christ deserves that position.

So now I know a weakness, a temptation that I have. How do I defeat this when it comes up again? And it will, we are all human.

Paul tells Timothy in I Timothy 4:16 “Pay close attention to yourself and to your teaching..” Basically KNOW YOURSELF, know what tempts you.

I know if I walk into a mall with a pocketbook full of money, this is a serious temptation for me. Because I know this fact about myself, I will not walk into a mall if that money was not supposed to go towards things in a mall. Know what your triggers are, and move away from them.

If when you are alone you have the tendency to think negative thoughts, or to fall into a negative pattern. Be aware of that and move away from that environment, surround yourself with positive words of Christ, surround yourself with a body of believers, do not allow yourself to be alone for an extended period of time. Know what your triggers are. Sometimes it is something very physical like the computer, the type of books you read, the type of magazines you surround yourself with, the type of music you listen to.

For me now, I am aware there are many wise and wonderful men and women here to teach me more about Christ, but they are never to be placed on a pedestal. My trigger in this was placing others on the same spiritual pedestal as I placed Christ. Also I need to be aware when I am weary in battle to surround myself in his word. We are all one in the body, just with different spiritual gifts. And the only person who will not fail us is Christ. I know this seems obivious, but like I said satan is tricky and it can happen without you being aware.

In Matt 26:41 it states “Keep watching and praying that you may not enter into temptation.”

All of this cannot be done in our own power, we can only fight temptation with God’s power, we are nothing on our own. On our own we are a squirt gun trying to put out a forest fire, but with Christ we are heavy torrential rain to that forest fire.

Walk worthy, know yourself, and do not allow Satan to place you in the environment that will lead to temptation. Sometimes it can hit you out of the blue like it did me, then pick yourself up, run to Christ and with his power he will teach you, stretch you and put out the fire of temptation with His word of truth.

Heavenly Father, help us examine ourselves, to know what our temptation triggers are, I know they are different for each person. Help us to stand up and be bold and to say, “I can not do that, for it is a trigger for me” and give us the strength to walk away. Through your power, nothing can defeat us. Thank you Father for when we do fall, you are there to teach and instruct us in the way to go, and to help us grow stronger in the knowledge of you so we do not fall for the same lie each time.
Amen.

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