Not an Ordinary Gift
5 Mar
Titus 2:4 These older women must train the younger women to love their husbands and their children,
A few weeks ago I experienced this scripture firsthand. I watched this bible verse unfold before my very eyes. Charlotte, a beautiful woman with strawberry red hair and a twinkling smile rose to take the microphone at the women’s monthly Connection Breakfast. This wise woman, rich in years and abounding in God’s grace “trained” us in the ways of the Lord.
She shared a story about a unique gift and now I want to share it with you.
The Gift!
The event was Charlotte’s eldest daughter’s wedding day. This was the day she gave “the gift” for the very first time. It was her heart’s desire to bestow to her first born a memento she would treasure for the rest of her life.
It was a bible.
However, this was not an ordinary bible. This particular bible was a personal experience between the Lord, Charlotte and her daughter. You see, about three months before the wedding, Charlotte began reading this bible.
Beginning in Genesis, she read the entire bible cover-to-cover. She was searching for specific verses which would bear special meaning. She highlighted passages and also wrote tiny notes in the margins. She selected chapters with teaching about a God-centered marriage. She sought out verses regarding parenting. Charlotte picked out the scriptures which offered wisdom a mother would want to share with her daughter. She highlighted words knowing they would provide comfort during times of struggle, and most importantly she shared verses of love, spoken from a Savior to his daughter.
Charlotte spent three months reading this special bible. God revealed unique treasures as she read with new eyes, that of a young bride. On the day of the wedding, Charlotte delighted in her daughter’s squeals and tears as she opened the box to reveal “the gift.” It is a precious heirloom shared by mother and daughter and by a Savior.
But the story does not end here. Charlotte went on to tell us that “the gift” turned out to be hers. She spent three months alone with the Lord. She gained wisdom and intimacy because she dedicated herself to reading his word in addition to her regular morning bible reading. Reading the scriptures from a new perspective allowed the Lord to work something new in her heart. In the end, she received “the gift.”
Isn’t that just like our Father?
I dabbed a Kleenex to my eyes. I knew I wanted to give “the gift” and I would order a slimline bible or two this week. My son will be receiving one on his wedding day in the not so distant future and perhaps his new wife. I also will have one ready for my daughter when she graduates from High School.
As the morning concluded, Charlotte said she has also bestowed “the gift” to her three sons, three daughters-in-law and a son-in-law. What an amazing legacy.
And it is a legacy she shared with us that we may also give and receive “the gift.”
Lord, thank you for the gift of your word. Thank you for Titus 2 women who share their wisdom and grace with the next generation. In Jesus name, Amen.






















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