Cherish your Friendships

sweet friendshipCherish your friendships.  Life can change suddenly.  I received the phone call in the evening of last week.  My friend Susie had died suddenly.  I could hardly believe this news.  After all, she hadn’t been sick as far as I knew.  As news spread among her friends, the overall response was shock.  I think the suddenness and unexpectedness of her death stunned everyone.  And yet we never know when our last day on earth will be.

My thoughts turned to the many discussions we had.  Susie and I loved to read Andrew Murray’s books.  She referred to him fondly as Brother Andrew.  Abiding in Christ became a frequent topic of conversation between us.  We struggled with giving up control and surrendering.  But we both knew that that in order to bear fruit we need to stay planted in the Vine.  After all, we were the branch and the job of the branch is to yield and receive from the vine.  We talked and talked about our struggles to surrender and depend on the Lord in all things.  John 15 came alive to us as we talked and talked.  I can still hear her Texas twang.  Oh how I loved the sound of her voice and how different it was from mine.

Susie was passionate about mentoring younger women.  For months, I would go to her home each week as we worked our way through the mentoring program Called to Obedience.  I realized that she mentored many others but I was amazed by the number of women.  In turn, many of those women mentored others.  I love that ripple effect!

Susie was my supervisor when I volunteered for seven years teaching in the children’s program of Bible Study Fellowship.  Each week we had training sessions in preparation for the next day’s class.  At first, I had to get used to Susie’s direct approach.  She would call on us and I wanted to be prepared.  But I soon learned that she had a heart of love for each one of us.  And my heart warmed right up to hers.

Psalm 116:15 says:

“Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.”

How thankful I am for Susie’s friendship.  It causes me to realize that we really don’t know when our last day on this earth will be.  So I want to cherish those friendships.  How about you?  Are there people in your life who have taught you and walked alongside of you?  Take time to thank them.

I can almost picture the scene.  One moment Susie is here on this earth and the next moment she is in the arms of Jesus.  I can picture her smiling face and hearing her speak with that Texas drawl.

Blessings and love,

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7 thoughts on “Cherish your Friendships

  1. Barbie

    I am so sorry to hear of your friend’s passing. So thankful she was along with you on your journey and that you will meet up again soon! Hugs!

  2. lisa

    Oh Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss and yet so grateful for the testimony. It is a beautiful story perfectly captured by your tender spirit!

  3. Debbie

    Oh Debbie I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and yet I know you are rejoicing that she is even now in the presence of our Savior! What a wonderful testimony you tell of her! Blessings!

  4. Linda

    I lost my last comment…so I shall try again! (:>)

    I am sorry for the loss of your sweet friend. How wonderful that you had such great conversations together and what a blessing for you to have had Susie for a mentor over the years!

    Always remember what she did for you in your life, and pass that love on to others Debbie! We all need to share Christ’s love and encouragement with others. When we do, it is so sweet!

    I loved going to Women’s Bible Study Fellowship over a period of 5 years. Isn’t it a great program? I was young in the faith back then and it brought much needed growth into my life!

    God knows what we need, and He leads us to it!

    Once again, please accept my loving sympathies.

    Linda @ Truthful Tidbits

  5. Beth Herring

    I am so sorry for the devastating and sudden loss of your precious friend. But I am so thankful that she is in the Presence of our Lord! What a fabulous testimony her life was and still is! THank you for sharing this with us – praying for you my friend.

  6. Iris

    I am so sorry to read about a loss of a dear friend of yours. What a beautiful blog to share about your friendship with her.

    Thank you for the reminder that God places very special people into our lives to grow in Him.