Don’t Fear the Process
I have a fear of needles. In fact, there’s a part of me that would rather remain ill than to have an injection. It’s silly I know but nevertheless, it’s true. I remember a few years ago when I had to receive an injection. I squeezed my eyes tightly closed when the nurse took out the needle. I didn’t dare look for fear that I would totally panic. I felt the chill as she dabbed alcohol on my arm, and tensed in anticipation of the sharp prick that would signaled the needle entering my arm.
I waited, eyes tightly closed, until I heard the amused voice of the nurse saying, “I don’t know why you still have your face tensed up, I’m already done.” I was so focused on my fear that it was over and I hadn’t even realized. It was no way as bad as I had feared and now I could look forward to feeling better.
Sometimes we fear the process so much that we allow it to outweigh the good that can be the end result. We fear forming new relationship because of the possibility of rejection. We fear going back to school, changing professions, and the list goes on. It’s not that we don’t want these things but we don’t want to go through any process that involves pain. However as long as you are alive it is inevitable that you will experience pain. In order to experience growth some pain or discomfort is necessary. We can be assured though that whatever ever situation we are faced with the Lord our God is with us.
This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9 NLT
What a powerful reminder to not fear the process. I have been through rejections quiet often, and it is painful. However, there is always growth involve.